Living without caste or religion: Sneha narrates her story

Recently, the Tamil Nadu government issued Sneha a formal certificate that she was a caste and religion less person. Perhaps, she was the first one in the country to be formally certified so.

When the government can issue community certificates, it struck me why not I get a caste and religion less certificate. Initially, I had requested for such a certificate through letters. Later, I applied for it like any other person applying for a community certificate,” Sneha said.

Her tryst with that certificate ended early this month when the government issued her one. “My family - parents, sisters, husband and daughters - have been living without any caste or religious identification. The certificate is just a legal document. We are all atheists,” Sneha said.

In a country where a person’s name can denote his/her caste or religion, Sneha and her husband K Parthibaraja have named their three daughters with a mix of Buddhist, Christian and Muslim names - Aadhirai Nasreen, Aadhila Irene and Aarifa Jessy. “Several decades ago when times were not this modern, my in-laws had named their daughters differently,” Parthibaraja remarked. Sneha’s two younger sisters have Muslim and Christian names - Mumtaj Suriya and Jennifer.

“My father-in-law PV Anandakrishnan and mother-in-law Manimozhi are both advocates and belonged to different castes. They were rationalists and Leftists. Sneha was named after a Telangana girl, Snehalatha, who died in police custody,” Parthibaraja said.

The initials before Sneha’s name - MA - denote the first letter of her parents’ names. “My paternal grandfather was a religious person but not his eldest son advocate PV Bakthavatchalam, who during his college days got attracted towards communism and rationalism. My father too followed his elder brother,” Sneha said.

Recalling her childhood days, Sneha said, “We grew up in a different environment. Our home was frequented by communist friends of my parents. At home, the books too were on communism, rationalism and atheism. My sisters and I imbibed those principles.”

During school, Sneha said, she and her two sisters would always answer ‘no caste, no religion’ when their friends or their parents asked about it.

“We are staunch atheists. We didn’t waver an inch in our core belief even when one of my sisters was a born thalassemic patient requiring regular blood transfusion. Even when she faced life threatening ailments, we didn’t go in search of any god,” Sneha said.

Sneha said confidently that her three daughters will not waver an inch from the principles of no caste, no religion and atheism. “Life partners who are of the same wavelength will automatically come at the right time,” she added.

Speaking about his marriage, Parthibaraja, a Tamil professor at Sacred Heart College in Tirupathur, said, “I hail from a religiously inclined family. But I got interested in the philosophies of Periyar and Ambedkar and became an atheist.” Sneha said her three daughters and two sisters will soon apply for no caste, no religion certificates.

“Early in my life I had got a community certificate. I had to approach the court first to get the no caste, no religion certificate,” Parthibaraja said.